My mom is trying to convince me that I should ask my younger brother's wife to be a bridesmaid. She and I are not that close - she's nice, but we don't have a lot in common.
I told my mom a) I don't want to have a bigger wedding party because the 5 bridesmaids I have are already close to being too many, imo b) it would be awkward to invite someone to be a bridesmaid months after you have already established your wedding party.
I pointed out that neither of my sisters' husbands are in the wedding party, but told my mom I would find another way for her to be involved in the wedding somehow. It's a non-religious ceremony tho, I'm not sure what a meaningful role would be.
It's annoying because I am the "nice" sibling who gives in on almost everything so my mom is doing her best to guilt me - because my SIL doesn't have sisters she keeps saying how meaningful it would be, blah blah blah.
am I being unreasonable? 9/10 times I give in on things so it's hard for me judge if I am being a bitch.