My mom is so hot and cold with all things wedding related. It hurts me.
She chose not to come to the party where FI proposed (She didn't know
his plans so I'll give her that, but she never comes to anything)
- She has yet to ask to see my ring.
- Getting her to come dress shopping with me was like getting blood from a stone.
- She and my sister had committed to making the wedding favours, but they keep clawing back on the details.
Despite the fact that I haven't asked for any money, she has an opinion
on the cost everything (FI and I are paying for everything ourselves)
have told her that her behaviour is hurtful, and all she did was go
into defense mode and plead chronic disease (Mom has MS, but is by no
means disabled). Right after that conversations, she went right back to
Any advice on how to get her a bit more excited? I mean I'm likely the only one of her two daughters that will get married (Long story about my sister...) and I was hoping for some more excitement.