Hi! My fiance and I are starting to put together/order our invites and we seem to be stuck at a bit of a road block. We are splitting the costs of our wedding 50/50 with my (the bride) parents - so we feel a little stuck on the wording of the invite since it is not "together with their parents" or "the parents of ____ request your presence". Has anyone else been in a similar situation and have any suggestions or ideas regarding this? I know "together with their parents" is not going to sit well with my parents since they are contributing a considerable amount of $......is that a little bratty? yes but I also kind of understand northern NJ weddings are very expensive. My fiance's parents have also not helped or really made our wedding process easy - we can't have a rehearsal dinner because they can't really be trusted to be in a small room together and they haven't done much except complain when we asked them to cut their lists down so I guess part of me doesn't want to give them that much credit either. I'm just so torn I will of course have their names on the invite they are his parents and I do love them but I was just hoping for maybe a different way to word that part of the invite. Any suggestions
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