My brother is getting married in June and he has been with his fiancee for almost four years. She's part of our family. She's with us for nearly every holiday. She was there through my whole pregnancy and my 2.5 year old daughter knows her as Aunt Beth and has never known a world without her. When she asked me to be her maid of honor I was happily surprised. My question is...when I look for tips on writing my toast, it's clear that most maids of honor are close friends of the bride who definitely don't know the groom as well. That's not the case here as he is my only sibling and we're very close. I'm struggling with how to write a toast that honors my future sister in law, respects my role as maid of honor, and doesn't ignore my close bond with my brother - the groom. Any tips?