My (the bride) parents have both passed away. My future in laws (still married) are contributing a good amount of money to our wedding. My fiancé and I are also putting in a lot of our own money. I have been doing all of the planning by myself and will continue to do everything until all is said and done. How do I word our invitations? I am seeing everywhere it's all about who is "hosting" the wedding but what exactly does that mean when costs are split?