So i have a dilemma, my wedding is going to be next year august and I have two siblings. A brother (age 7) on my moms side and then a sister (age 11) on my dads side. My sister has ALWAYS wanted to be a flower girl in my wedding since she was little and my brother "called dibs" on ring bearer. Now that we are in the early stages of planning my FMIL asked who my flower girl and ring bearer is and i said my sister and my brother she told me "aren't they too old? i think it would be cuter if they were younger" now mind you i dont give 2 hoots about "being cute" its what my sister and brother have expressed they wanted, where as my FMIL wants me to have her 3 young nieces to be the flower girl and to find another younger cousin of mine to be the ring bearer. I'm perfectly okay with how it is, however she got me thinking. Is my sister really "too old" to be considered a FG, should i just ask her to be a bridesmaid instead?? I am definitely going to ask my sister what she prefers when we get closer to the wedding date and its appropriate to ask but i just wanted to get others opinions??