Need advice on the etiquette of this - in case it happens again to a friend or myself again.
So I was supposed to be a bridesmaid for my friend this past November. I'm in medical school at the moment and I live quite far away (14+ hours by plane). When I committed to be apart of the wedding I was doing a little better financially and I thought I would be able to attend despite my academic commitment. I ending up having to backout last minute (~2.5 weeks beforehand) because of a school new policy. Basically, if I left I would fail. My question is, would you be mad at me if I backout last minute and it was your wedding? And is it wrong for me to still expect a thank you note for the gift I gave her?