I have a big family, like my big fat greek wedding big. We are planning a big wedding, on a small budget. Our venue holds 300 and we have invited 330. I have a distant 2nd cousin from Florida who recently moved to my area (Illinois) 6 months ago. I have tried to get to know her while she has been here, and I don't really care for her. She is very immature and I can tell she only moved here to mooch off of my aunt and party 24/7, especially since her parents refused to support her. She met a guy and now she lives with him. My Aunt is insisting that I send her an invite. My Mom is leaving it up to me, but says I have every right to not send her one. My Mom feels that just because she lives here now does not mean I have to invite her to my wedding. I am kind of shocked my Aunt even feels like she has a place to put opinions in on the guest list. Because of my cousins immaturity I could see her inviting herself and her boyfriend and just showing up anyways. So should I just invite her anyways or just skip sending her an invitation. I struggle with this because I have other 2nd cousins who I would much rather send an invite than her. Other people who I do feel bad that they aren't getting an invite. She has recently befriended all of us on Facebook and she posts her life on there. So there is a good chance that if I send her an invite that other people would know. I also had a friend who suggested I tell her and some others to just come later on for dancing and a drinks. Is that in bad taste?