Hi all! I'm 24 years old, newly engaged, wedding date set and most of the planning done. My problem is I'm not excited about the wedding. Before we got engaged my fiancé switched from agreeing with me to eloping to wanting a wedding. I literally broke down. For me I've never been the girl who dreamed of her wedding day. I've always been more excited for what comes after. Another part of it being I lost my mom three years ago to cancer and the idea of doing all the big wedding things without her really sucks. I'm trying to get excited about it all, but at the end of the day I just can't. Can anyone give some advice or is anyone going through something similar?