I've seen posts about costs for things like flights and hotels, and in our case everyone's paying for their own, including the bride, which I think is fair (and standard). My question is about who should pay for her dinner and drinks while we're there. If it were a night out on the town locally I'd absolutely say we should all split her portion, but is that still expected since we're already paying a lot of money to fly out for a long weekend? I'm sure I'll get her a few drinks at the bars, but I'm thinking of things like brunch and dinner every day. Thanks!