Just need to rant for a moment here. My FI's Mom and step-Dad are in town visiting, and asked us about general wedding weekend plans. We talked about having a small rehearsal dinner with just immediate family and the wedding party. FI's step-Dad got so upset and argued with us about how all these family members will be coming in for our wedding and spending lots of money to be here and how we owe them another dinner (in addition to, you know, the wedding). And he doesn't understand why we can't just "rent a hall" and have a potluck rehearsal dinner or have it "at someone's house." We live in Chicago, and the wedding is downtown, so space is an issue, and we can't ask our siblings with young kids to haul out to the suburbs. And no one who lives in the city has that much space at their place. It's yet another thing in wedding planning where we can't possibly please everyone but that people feel the need to tell us their opinion and possibly argue about it, too.
I think I'm just really done with this whole thing. My Mom is recovering from breast cancer, my FI and I just moved in together, and I have this thing called a full-time job. It feels less and less like our wedding, and more like everyone else's. I think the only time I've felt really happy was standing in my dress, which I love. When I was home this past weekend visiting my parents, my Mom randomly asked if I was getting excited yet. It was a bit of a non sequitur, but it didn't even occur to me that she was asking about the wedding, which is in September. At this point I just feel like an unpaid event planner.