I'm so done with all this wedding planning. Every single time I come up with a plan, either FH has a problem with the plan or my mom has a problem or FMIL has a problem. I could be convinced to like almost any plan we come up with. Me and FH have FINALLY gotten a plan together of what we want. Anyone I talk to that isn't family loves all of the plans we've made. But I just can't keep going back and forth. I can't deal with all of the guilt I have for not pleasing my mom or his mom or me or him and I'm so done with everything I almost don't want to plan this stupid thing anymore.
How do I get my mom to BACK OFF and let me plan the wedding that I want without making me feel bad or guilty every two days? She makes me want to pull my hair out and I dread when she asks about the wedding because I know she'll find a reason to be unhappy.
"Let me give you some advice. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister