I'm probably making a bigger deal out of this than I need to, but we're debating on when we should send out the wedding invitations. Our wedding is February 4, so based on the traditional etiquette, we should be sending these in December. However, with it being holiday time, I'm worried about them getting mixed in the shuffle of holiday cards/party invitations and/or lost in the mail with the increase in mail traffic at that time of the year. Would it be prudent to mail them out a little earlier than what is typical, say prior to Thanksgiving? Or would this be too early and we run the risk of people putting the invitation off to the side and forgetting to RSVP? Thanks!