I thought I had settled this question, but now I'm rethinking it. The ceremony is at 1pm, and the photographer should arrive around noon. I had really had my heart set on having my FI see me in my dress for the first time as I come down the aisle, but the photographer is concerned that the Church is a rather dark inside, and there is a "no flash" rule during the ceremony, so getting good pics of both me and the groom's reactions may be trickier.
I'm concerned that only an hour before the ceremony starts seems a short time before the ceremony. Plus, I know that the first look is supposed to be an emotional, intimate moment in the midst of the hustle and bustle of the day, but FI is a pretty stoic guy -- I'd love for him to cry or give some strong physical reaction when he sees me, but I also know he's just not that kind of person. I'm worried he and I may feel awkwardly pressured to make a photo op out of the moments right before the ceremony that's not actually going to feel very genuine or personal.
Sooo ... Thoughts? I'm a bit at a loss of what to do here.
ETF spelling (on my phone!)