Hi Knotties! First time poster, though I've been lurking for about six weeks. I've already learned so much from you, so THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!
One thing I learned from lurking was that it's proper to ask the bridesmaids for their budget before selecting the bridesmaid dress. But how on earth do I word that question tactfully?
I am planning to choose a specific collection (either David's Bridal or a collection from a designer widely available at bridal stores) and let my maids choose their preferred dress within that collection, which we'll order in the color (emerald green or its equivalent in that collection). But, even though dress prices will vary within collections, I don't want to choose a collection where even the lowest priced option is above someone's budget.
I'm composing a mass e-mail to my maids, but for the life of me, I cannot think of a way to word this question without feeling like I'm being nosy. Right now I have something like "If you have any budget concerns, please don't be shy about letting me know privately. If I know what everyone is comfortable spending, I can steer the group toward a collection that works for everyone."
What do you think?