So I'm not sure if I need to address this or if I should let my mom and bridesmaids deal with this...
My mother has done her very best to include my FMIL in the planning of my bridal shower. While I don't know the specifics, I have heard from a couple of my bridesmaids that FMIL and FSIL (who is also a bridesmaid), are very opionated and keep coming up with ideas that are far out there. FMIL is older and tends to be old fashioned in her ideas and FSIL is selfish and always tries to monopolize every conversation. ***side note- FSIL is like that in general. She makes everything about her and what she wants (my wedding included); but I suppose that's for another post lol***
Now I know my FI wants his mother to be involved, and he knows how his sister can be; but at what point (if any) should I say something to him. They make everyone else uncomfortable when they all meet, and then I hear about how they acted and feel bad. Our mothers went looking for dresses together, and even then FMIL kept inserting her opinions and drove my mother (and even the shop owner) nuts. I know if I do tell him he may get upset and not want to say anything out of respect for his mother which I would understand, but I just want my mother and the rest of my bridesmaids to feel comfortable.