Hello all! Ive asked a few questions while wedding planning and as we get to the end (Cant believe its almost here!!!), I have another etiquette question I'd love some imput on.
FI has a really good friend who is standing up as a groomsman, lets call him Bob. Bob has this girlfriend who literally doesnt get along with anyone. Both FI and I are very easy going people and get along with most everyone but this girl is something else. She has told both of us that she doesnt like us and does not like Bob hanging out with us so because of this, we havent seen much of Bob in the last year or so. Before meeting this GF, Bob was such an indepedent and successful guy so it is so strange and actually sad to see him this whipped by a girl. I'm even surprised that he was "allowed" to be in our wedding since she seems to control every inch of his life. Besides being rude and just a terrible person, she also causes such unnecessary drama anytime we used to go out with them.
Bob called FI this week asking if he could bring the girlfriend. Obviously we extended him a plus 1 but really do not want him to bring the girlfriend. We also invited his parents and brother to the wedding so he will not be there alone and he will know most of the guests as well. Is it totally wrong to tell him he cannot bring this girl? Thanks ladies!