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lyndausvi

Pay your rent on time and you wouldn't have this kind of stress.

DrillSergeantCat

Robbing Peter to pay Paul will get you nowhere.

glasgowtolondon

Bottom line though - are your landlords okay with you waiting until the 15th to pay them?

DrillSergeantCat

glasgowtolondon said:

Bottom line though - are your landlords okay with you waiting until the 15th to pay them?

Obviously the one isn't since he banged on her door to get his money.

climbingsingle

You had no right to behave like that to him. If your rent is due on the 1st, you have to pay it on the first. And if you wanted an extra two weeks, YOU should have made sure you told both landlords, not just the "nice" one. 

Bottom line, you have only yourself to blame for this. Build a bridge and get over it. 

[Deleted User]

Yeah they're fine with it. We've done it before when my fiance was in the hospital. They require notice and a late fee, it's not the end of the world. 

I'm not blaming anyone for anything, I'm simply saying he should NOT have threatened to intrude in our person space to "rearrange" our home as he puts it. 

[Deleted User]

@climbingwife So if a 300 pound man is trying to force his way into your home to fight you, you would let him simply because you owe rent? LOL You're a treat. We have 2 landlords, one that is responsible for maintenance and handling requests, the only who picks up the rent each month. In our lease we filter all requests and complaints via the "nice" one. 

glasgowtolondon

DrillSergeantCat said:

glasgowtolondon said:

Bottom line though - are your landlords okay with you waiting until the 15th to pay them?

Obviously the one isn't since he banged on her door to get his money.

Actually she says that her FI had since spoken to one of them to try to smooth things out and apologise. After the banging on the door part.

climbingsingle

MrsPeacock2016 said:

Yeah they're fine with it. We've done it before when my fiance was in the hospital. They require notice and a late fee, it's not the end of the world. 

I'm not blaming anyone for anything, I'm simply saying he should NOT have threatened to intrude in our person space to "rearrange" our home as he puts it. 

Obviously not since he came to your door looking for his money...

[Deleted User]

Also, our rent is due on the 10th of each month, not the first. 5 days late isn't killing anyone. If he is too emotional and cannot control his anger, he should not be collecting money. Simple. 

climbingsingle

MrsPeacock2016 said:

@climbingwife So if a 300 pound man is trying to force his way into your home to fight you, you would let him simply because you owe rent? LOL You're a treat. We have 2 landlords, one that is responsible for maintenance and handling requests, the only who picks up the rent each month. In our lease we filter all requests and complaints via the "nice" one. 

1. I bet he didn't try to force his way into your house until you started arguing with him. 
2. If I knew my rent was late, and my landlord showed up angry, I'd be extremely apologetic and I would not have engaged with him. 
3. If you're going to be late on your rent, you need to put on your big girl panties instead of being a coward and dealing with only the "nice" one. 

[Deleted User]

Well it's not my fault the other landlord did not communicate it to his partner. How are we to contact the guy if we don't have his number or address? We don't even have his first name. (I can't make the sh*t up if I tried) He's elusive and his only role is to collect. The other guy is responsible for everything else. 

climbingsingle

MrsPeacock2016 said:

Well it's not my fault the other landlord did not communicate it to his partner. How are we to contact the guy if we don't have his number or address? We don't even have his first name. (I can't make the sh*t up if I tried) He's elusive and his only role is to collect. The other guy is responsible for everything else. 

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@climbingwife

1. I bet you he threatened us first thus creating a hostile situation. We told him if he continued to threaten us or our property again we would call the police. "That's a nice car you have there I'm sure you wouldn't want a dent in it" is a threat. "Open your damn door so I can help you rearrange your furniture" is a threat. I'm sorry, I didn't know you were there in my house as it was happening.

2. We apologized and he didn't want to hear it. This is the first we've ever seen of this guy since he doesn't even live in the same state. Again, what part of we had permission do you not understand? 

3. Again, we don't have the guys phone number and we followed every proceedure in our lease.

4. You need to chill the F out and relax. Our situation does not harm your life in the slightest. This is a VENT post, not a "I wanted your useless opinion since you refuse to read what I'm saying" post. You need to have a drink or go flick your bean or do both! It'll help you relax since you're obviously in a foul mood to be this argumentative with a stranger. 

5. I'm going to pray for your husband. 

climbingsingle

MrsPeacock2016 said:

@climbingwife

1. I bet you he threatened us first thus creating a hostile situation. We told him if he continued to threaten us or our property again we would call the police. "That's a nice car you have there I'm sure you wouldn't want a dent in it" is a threat. "Open your damn door so I can help you rearrange your furniture" is a threat. I'm sorry, I didn't know you were there in my house as it was happening.

2. We apologized and he didn't want to hear it. This is the first we've ever seen of this guy since he doesn't even live in the same state. Again, what part of we had permission do you not understand? 

3. Again, we don't have the guys phone number and we followed every proceedure in our lease.

4. You need to chill the F out and relax. Our situation does not harm your life in the slightest. This is a VENT post, not a "I wanted your useless opinion since you refuse to read what I'm saying" post. You need to have a drink or go flick your bean or do both! It'll help you relax since you're obviously in a foul mood to be this argumentative with a stranger. 

5. I'm going to pray for your husband. 

Funny how this story escalates each time you tell it. 

In case you didn't notice, this is the Snarky Brides board. If you can't handle snark, you should probably not post here. 

How am I not chill and relaxed? Haha. I'm not the one with a landlord banging down my door. 

No need to pray for my husband, or me. We pay all of our bills on time. 

[Deleted User]

Funny how with each reply you're even more of a ***removed for TOS violation*** lol. There, I've edited my post with thousands of details including what I did prior to gargamel trying to barge into my living room. I'm praying for your poor husband because you certainly are a catch.  

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***Removed for TOS Violation***

glasgowtolondon

Bahahahahaha! I think you need to go flick your own bean, Mrs Peacock. Maybe then you'll chill the f out for your rehersal dinner.

climbingsingle

MrsPeacock2016 said:

***Removed for TOS Violation***

Lmao. Awesome. You're clearly a very secure, kind and classy person. 

lyndausvi

MrsPeacock2016 said:

Also, our rent is due on the 10th of each month, not the first. 5 days late isn't killing anyone. If he is too emotional and cannot control his anger, he should not be collecting money. Simple. 

Something tells me if your employer paid you 5 days late on a semi-consistent basis you wouldn't be so nice either.

They own a business.  They have bills to pay.    I can't support a person who admits they are consistently late on paying the rent.  PRIORITIES people.

DrillSergeantCat

MrsPeacock2016 said:

***Removed for TOS Violation***

I'm just wondering if your mommy and daddy know you're online right now. 

[Deleted User]

@glasgowtolondon I would if I had the time to! TRUST ME. 

dyerwise

ok... first of all @MrsPeacock2016 I'll pray for your husband because you are cleary an immature drama queen.

Secondly, if your rent is due on the 10th and you don't think the "nice" landlord told the "mean" landlord about your extension... why did the "mean" landlord come to your house to collect the rent on the 7th?

I've rented places before and my lease always said "Rent due by the 1st, late fees will be applied to payments made after the 10th" or some other specified date...paying before fees are applied doesn't mean you are paying on time...

Since it seems like you've been late on your rent before I can see why a landlord would come by to try to collect.

[Deleted User]

They probably don't know I'm online because they're dead. Maybe I should have asked my future in-laws. Maybe they would allow me time on the interwebs.

[Deleted User]

Paying late twice in almost 2 years is not semi-constant but I see what you're saying. 

climbingsingle

Rent is due on the 10th, but the mean landlord came looking for it on the 7th. Suuuuuuuure. This all adds up. 

DrillSergeantCat

MrsPeacock2016 said:

They probably don't know I'm online because they're dead. Maybe I should have asked my future in-laws. Maybe they would allow me time on the interwebs.

Not if they see how you treat people on here. 

lyndausvi

climbingwife said:

Rent is due on the 10th, but the mean landlord came looking for it on the 7th. Suuuuuuuure. This all adds up. 

exactly.  Something is not adding up here.  

DrillSergeantCat

Every lease I've ever done, rent is due the same day of the month for everyone regardless of when you move in. The first month is adjusted for the difference. 

lyndausvi

MrsPeacock2016 said:

*EDIT*

1. Rent was due on the 10th, it gets collected on the 5th (or whenever "the lazy bastard" collects it) Ours is due the 10th because that's when we moved in.

2. We communicated to the communications landlord we would be paying our rent on the 15th due to wedding being ON the tenth. The communications landlord had no issue.

3. It became apparent today that the communications landlord did not inform his partner of the plan. (Which is not our problem as we followed our lease guidelines on who we are to contact)

4. The guy who tried to barge in our house is only the business partner of the official landlord therefore he does not get contacted by ANY of the tenants. Why would we have this guys number anyway? Payments aren't made to him, he literally just collects them.

5. This should have been first, I'm more stressed out about my gallbladder than I am some miscommunication. I'm stressing about the rehearsal dinner. I only included the bit about gargamel (thats what he looks like) to vent about it. We paid our rent on time for the passed 20 months we've been there (excluding the first lateness we had when my FI was sick a year ago). I've literally never seen this guy until today. 

6. I'm rarely home. Dunno if my FI has ever seen him collecting. I've never seen it.

Hey Knotties! 

It's 3 days before my wedding, today is the day of our rehearsal dinner. I'm going through some major shit. To make a long story short, we have 2 landlords and we notified the one who was friendly and easy to talk to that we would be paying on the 15th. No problem until today when his rude partner banged on our door. He starts yelling and swearing and making threats, we ask him to lower his voice. He raises it higher and then he tried to enter the apartment. I told my FI to shut the door, FI doesn't do that and the guy tries to reach his hand in so I went and slammed it in his face. Rude, yes, illegal? No.

On top of that, everyone's pissed off at me for doing this but I was only ending a nasty situation. FI called the nicer landlord (we have 2) and explained what happened and apologized. So now I can't stop stressing out, I have gallstones and my surgery date isn't until after the wedding and all the stress is exacerbating it. 

I feel like today is ruined and I'm not going to be able to enjoy my Rehearsal or the dinner party afterward. My wedding has been a shitshow from start to finish. 

WTF does your wedding being on the 10th make you have to pay your rent late?

My rent is due on the 1st.   I went away from the 22nd until the 1st (which was a sunday).    Guess what I did?   Paid the rent on the 21st before I left for vacation.      

When I got married I had a mortgage.  I was gone for almost 4 weeks total (oot wedding + HM).   HM was out of the country mind you.  I still paid my bills on time.


Is it really that hard to figure out how to pay a bill on time?    Weddings and vacation are no excuse.  Hospitalization I would semi-give you as a reason, other stuff.  Nope.