Back story, I got engaged in Oct 2015, wedding is Nov 2016. Fast forward to February I asked a girl to be a bridesmaid, shortly after she got engaged, planning her wedding for Aug 2017, she also asked me to stand up for her.
Now.. We went bridesmaid dress shopping about 4 months ago for my wedding, and she was pretty crappy towards all my other bridesmaids and made the day all about her and her wedding... (At my wedding I'll have this, oh I should buy this for my wedding etc... Not about me and my day). Now everything is still about her and her wedding 13 months away, not about mine 4 months away.... And I want to drop out of her wedding, I have so much going on in my life and financially I can't afford it right now.
And then today, my FI and I were told by some of our closest friends their wedding will be the exact same day as the other one. My heart broke when I found out because I want to be at the other wedding, I don't care if I miss the girl's wedding because she hasn't been treating me very well. Now I know it'll ruin the friendship, and I'm okay with that, because the friendship isn't great as is. I just don't know how to tell her...
I realize some of you will say this may be in bad taste etc, I'm just looking for advice to move forward with this.