I recently got married, but a situation with a few of my good friends has left me a little unsure of what to do. I have a group of friends that I went to school with, but I moved abroad a few years ago for work so we no longer live near one another. My wedding was in the country where I currently I live, and (understandably) no one from this friend group could make it. However, our wedding day came and went and none of these friends really made an effort to acknowledge it - no gifts, no cards, no facebook posts, no "good luck!" or "how was the day?" text messages. The only effort was a one line "happy wedding day" text that came at the end of the night (after guests had already put photos up on social media).
I feel a little upset for two reasons. First, that I am the last to get married in this group and I purchased bridal shower, bachelorette, and wedding gifts for each one of them (which certainly added up), but no one thought to return the favor in any small way. But mostly I feel hurt because it felt like none of them cared that I got married or bothered to make it feel like it was a special day for me.
Am I crazy for feeling hurt about this?