Well, I can finally say I'm marrying FI next week!
Things I've been grateful for learning, mostly through this forum...
1. You will never please everyone all of the time, but if you keep your guests comfort at the forefront of your mind, you can't go far wrong.
2. Always budget for 100% attendance. I've seen some brides get majorly stressed when they didn't do this, but we ended up with left over money in the wedding pot, which is always a good thing.
3. So glad I didn't take on too much DIY, it's amazing just how much there is to do in the month before the big day.
4. Some people will be flaky with rsvps, we just added them on with the caterers just in case, then stopped stressing about it. In the greater scheme of things it's a drop in the ocean to pay for a few extra meals for the sake of your sanity.
5. You don't really need fancy decore, favours, cars/limos, seat covers, photo booths and lots of additional entertainment to please your guests. We have lots of food and booze, a kick ass band and a beautiful venue, and I'm sure it will be just fine.
6. You don't control the weather, God does, and much as he loves you he doesn't give a shit about your vision. Have a plan B, and be happy with it. I have rain forecast on my wedding day and I've realised it won't matter at all.
Would be interested to know what you learned about wedding planning from this site? Sarah xxx