I am attending a shower soon for a family member I was very close to growing up, but who I haven't seen often in adulthood.
She is not registered and I know she will prefer cash for a wedding gift. Her future MIL is hosting the shower and as far as gifts go she requested guests bring something the couple could use on a night out or a romantic night in.
I don't know the couple very well and I know the bride does not drink alcohol at all. I'm not sure what direction to go in... Lingerie? Just bring cash? Cash and a small gift? It would be awkward if I was the only one to buy something "kinky" but also kinda awkward if the gift opening was only cards (?) maybe just because I haven't been to a shower like that. I can only really think of gift cards as far as date nights out go!