My fiancé and I are getting married in Asheville, NC and we live near Atlanta, GA. The venue we chose has accommodations for us and all of our guests on site so it's going to be like a family and friend vacation weekend, which we are really looking forward to! My FI and I are getting to Asheville on Thursday along with some family members. Most family and friends are coming in Friday and we are getting married on Saturday. I was thinking my FI and I and whoever else is there Friday morning could all go do something together like go to The Biltmore Estate or something like that. However, my fiancé said he wants to go play golf with his friend Friday. At first, I said that was fine and I would still go to the Biltmore with whoever else wanted to. Now that I've thought about it more, it makes me sad that my FI doesn't want to hang out with me the day before our wedding, especially in Asheville- the place that we went on our first trip together and that is so special to us as a couple. Am I being ridiculous? Should I just drop it and let him go golf with his friend who lives 1000 miles away from us and who is coming all the way to Asheville for the weekend? I feel like he should want to spend the day with me since we will be there for our wedding! I feel like he is losing sight of that and is focusing more on himself and our guests than he and I. Then again, we already live together (have for almost 3 years) and spend everyday together. I'm obviously having conflicting feelings about this and would love some advice! Has anyone gone through something similar? How did it make you feel and what did you decide?