I have a tricky situation about which my bridesmaid just approached me.
My two bridesmaids are throwing me the most amazing bachelorette party I could ever come up with - they rented a limo to take to a few wineries in wine country a week before our wedding. They have been planning this for a while, and it was supposed to be the three of us and another bridesmaid, who is no longer in the wedding party. (You can read about it in another question I posted on the etiquette board, but it's a long story, so I won't get into it here.)
One of my bridesmaids just approached me about possibly inviting someone else of my choosing because there is now a vacant seat in the car. The three bridesmaids were going to split the costs, but now that the one bridesmaid has left, the other two are footing the entire bill (despite my urging them to allow me to pay both of our shares) and I'm getting the sense from the way they asked me that they don't want the extra seat to go to waste. They've assured me that whoever I choose won't be asked for any money. It's just about giving someone else the opportunity to share the day.
My question is: Is this B-listing? I can see both sides of it, so I thought I should bring it to the board.