Hi Everyone!
I am planning on having an aisle runner because I don't like the carpet too much at the venue. It was the only thing about the place that I wasn't in love with and I'm trying to go for an all white look with the decorations (the carpet is green!).
So my questions are, is it completely unacceptable to have the aisle runner out before and as guests arrive? Or is that one of the older traditions that I can not worry about? I know of the trick to rope off the aisle so that it can be down ahead of time but prevent people from walking on it, however, the way the venue is, people will need to cross the aisle to get to the other side of the room.
If it's a big no-no to have the aisle runner out, then who should I have roll it out before the processional? I don't have ushers.
Thanks in advance and my apologies for any lack of knowledge I have about the aisle runner!
Re: Traditional Views about the Aisle Runner
The trick with aisle runners is that they will get messy look very quickly. As people step on it, wrinkles will develop and it may get dirty (being white). If you are married to the idea of the runner, it should be rolled out just before you enter. Perhaps there are individuals from the venue that could roll it out?
Keep in mind that it is also a trip hazard and I have actually seen a bride do a face plant because she tripped on her runner.
The green carpet may not be aesthetically pleasing, but likely won't even be noticed by you or your guests. We got married in front of a wine wall and I wanted it to be flushed out with wine for pictures. You don't even notice the wine at all so it was really a waste of my time and energy wanting and making that happen.
When I look at my pictures, I only see the people. I had to purposely look to see the details around.
This is not something that will matter in the long run.
Since when does light purple and green clash? Can't get more green than grass
I'm anti-runner. I've seen a few that look nice. More often times it looks like putting lipstick on a pig. If you have the money then go for it, but I would not waste my money on an item I literally walk up and then back down again.
An empty room is going to make the carpet stand out. Once you get guests in the chairs, WP and FI at the end. It will be barely noticeable.
This is coming from someone who had to move her wedding from a beach to a concrete slab under a tent because of a tropical storm. Did I notice the concrete slab in the pics? Yes I did. Did it ruin the picture? Nope, not at all.
I also think there is a huge difference between a natural grass floor and a green carpet. The contrast in your picture is very stark and I have to agree that the carpet does indeed stand out. However, there is really nothing else in the picture to distract the eye. Once your ceremony space is filled with guests, the contrast won't look as severe. Save the aisle runner for the start of the ceremony.
We had an aisle runner in our ceremony- I can't remember if it was red or white- it was provided by the venue, so I said sure, but I doubt I'd pay for one.
FWIW, we had no issues with the aisle runner- in fact I don't even remember it! But I can say I didn't notice a change in surface walking onto the runner, guests walked up and down it, no ruffles, no trips. Any sort of "rug" (whether we're talking wedding venue or your house) is a tripping risk- so make sure it's going to be put down and secured properly.
Again, I doubt I'd pay for an aisle runner myself, and I doubt you'll notice the carpet the day of, but if it really bothers you and you have the money to get an aisle runner- go for it.
P.S. I would have the aisle runner put down and secured well before any guests arrive. Do not roll it out- that seems like unnecessary fan fare- you want it to cover up the carpet, not because *only* the bridal party can walk on it. And as said, to alleviate tripping issue or ruffling of the runner, it should be well secured.
On the one hand, it's superficial and silly to worry about something that is 100% frivolous. A runner is fussy and adds expense for no particular useful purpose. In fact, it has the negative effect of making it more difficult to walk down the aisle.
But on the other hand, the frivolousness argument could be made about the vast majority of things involved in wedding planning. Flowers are frivolous. A big, expensive dress is frivolous. Programs and favors and flower girls and rings are frivolous. You don't need any of that stuff to get married.
If you hate the carpet and you have money to throw at the problem that wouldn't be better used for a different purpose, there is nothing wrong with doing a runner. I wouldn't spend money on one but that doesn't mean you shouldn't.