So, my FFIL wants to host an "engagement party" for us in a few weeks. I spoke with FI and we both agreed it would be better if it was just an informal get together, not an engagement party but more just a family gathering since we still havent finalized a guest list, and wouldn't want someone to be invited who wasn't invited to the wedding.
Anyway, my problem is that his dad is still calling it an Engagement party, and it went from a backyard gathering to possibly being at the Yacht club. I'm worried that people will be invited who aren't on our guest list... I just have a bit of anxiety about it over all. Should we offer him a small list of guests that we KNOW we are inviting to the wedding? Or just let it go and let him plan whatever hes planning and be grateful for it?