After reading through many of the posts on here, it seems that guests paying for anything is looked down upon, which I totally get. Here's my dilemma though: we are having our wedding reception in a venue that is a member only club. There is not a bar in the reception hall, nor do they have a portable bar. Because of this, our guests will have to get drinks from the club bar. Since the club will be open to members still, some people that are not part of the wedding may also be getting drinks from the same bar. Our intent was to have beer, rail drinks, and soda available as an "open bar" option, meaning we are picking up the tab for it. As I've read through the posts, many people have said to not have alcohol out if it's not included in the open bar. Unfortunately, I can't ask the club to put alcohol away, because there may be members that want to get those drinks. That means alcohol will be out in the open that I didn't intend to include in our drink options. Is it still appropriate to offer only rail drinks, beer, and soda? If so, how can I indicate this to our guests? If someone wants to purchase a top shelf drink, is it rude that I'm not including it in the open bar tab?
Obviously I want people to have a good time and be a gracious host, but considering the bar set up, I'm not sure what to do. I have read through posts for over an hour and haven't seen this particular scenario. If it has been asked before and I missed it, I apologize.