My fiancé and I have decided that we want a small wedding with about 75 guests (almost all family), thus we think it would be weird to pull out a bunch of those people to be bridesmaids or groomsmen. Plus my family and friends are from out of state- making things tricky when it comes to prewedding planning. We are playing around with the idea of having a maid of honor and best man, and then inviting our close friends to join the Bride Tribe or "whatever name my fiancé calls his friends" to get ready with us, be apart of barchorlette/bachelor parties, etc. IF they want to. We would hate for them to feel like they have to spend extra money on matching dresses or getting their hair done since they are
teaveling from afar anyways, so this idea seems like the most fitting for our situation.
Is this rude? We want to include our friends but want to keep everything small and low-key. Feedback appreciated!