So my wedding is in a little over two months from now, but I sent my invitations out a while ago. I've got a lot of friends and relatives that are traveling from all over the country, so I wanted to give them plenty of time to figure out travel plans if they wanted to make it.
Anyway, RSVPs have started coming in, and there's one situation that I have no idea how to address.
I invited my cousin, who would be traveling quite a distance to make it to the big day. On the invitation, I listed only her name, no "and guest" or anything like that.
She talked to me before sending in her RSVP, and gave no indication that she'd be adding someone to her response. But, lo and behold, there it was -- an extra name listed on her response!
Long story short, I don't know for sure if this is a boyfriend, but if it is, then I should have included him on the invitation! We've had some "no" RSVPs already, so we can definitely accommodate him, but I don't want to say nothing about it and encourage other family members to do the same with random plus ones.
I guess what I'm asking is: How do I kindly ask her if this is her boyfriend, and let her know that we weren't planning on having him, but can fit him in?