I just need confirmation that this is weird and I'm not going crazy.
We're having our wedding and reception in New England in the fall. My family is all from the Midwest, and many won't be able to attend (and some others simply won't be invited to keep the guest list down). My parents, who still live in the Midwest, have graciously offered to throw my fiance and I a party the week after our wedding, so we can celebrate with all of those who couldn't make it to the wedding. (This is something they offered out of the blue, not something we asked them to host.)
My stepmom is dead-set that I wear my wedding dress to this party. I've told her I feel weird about it, that my wedding dress is for our wedding (which is something really special and only happens once), and that I'd feel uncomfortable putting my wedding dress on again. Not to mention, this second party isn't a reception, obviously--it's just that, a party!
She maintains that I should wear my wedding dress to the party because everyone who can't come/isn't coming/wasn't invited to the wedding will want the chance to see me in my dress.
Am I losing my mind? Wearing your wedding dress for an after-wedding party (a week later) is bizarre, right? What about the fact that she's hosting and paying for this party?