So FI & I live in his home state. I left mine about 6 years ago, but a good share of my family (all dad's side, part of mom's side) live in my home state. I have a few friends who live there still, but not a ton. The rest of my family and all of FI's family live all over the country. Most of our friends are here. We just bought a house here, so this is going to be our home for the foreseeable future. His parents live in the same city as us, and when we started planning, my parents did as well (they have since retired to a life of semi-nomads).
I'm starting to feel guilty about planning our wedding in the city in which we live. I know it's one of those things that isn't as important to other people as it is to me, and there is NEVER going to be the perfect time or place that works for everyone. Am I just being irrational? I sometimes feel like we should have planned it for my hometown, but planning a long-distance wedding seemed intimidating.