I had a bridesmaid bail on two bridesmaid dress appointments within the half hour of the appointment. I then told her she will have to go on her own as I have a weird work schedule, and she never did. This was in the fall. I've had multiple group chats about other bridal accessories. She never responded. Fast forward to now, two months before the wedding... And she all of a sudden wants to participate.
I was told she never reached out to the other girls to help with the planning of the shower, which is all done being planned.
She claims no one communicated with her, and I'll take some responsibility. I don't feel it's my job to continually nag her to get a dress, or remind her to reach out. (especially because a mutual friend was doing just that on his own.) She's been a bride before, so it's not like this process is new to her.
I just don't know what to do.