A handful of my guests have informed me that they will be choreographing a dance for our wedding. None of them are trained dancers, though they're very enthusiastic (to say the least). For the most part, they're some of my best friends (one in the bridal party), and more like family than actual family.
I obviously did not ask for this...it was something of a surprise when I was told, and I suspect it was supposed to be a complete surprise that one of them let slip.
I'm flattered, and generally would encourage them to do whatever they want, as long as they're enjoying themselves. But I'm wondering if the rest of my guests are going to be side-eyeing this, and if that's ok for one dance (there are plenty of other rooms in the venue where they can go to get drinks or find a table to chat at in the meantime, if they're really that against it).
What would TK do? Would you let your friends have their fun in your honor? Or would you shut it down, and how?