So one of my bridesmaids is throwing my bachelorette party since my MOH is my little sister that is still in college and doesn't have time to do it. She recently asked me to give her a list of who I wanted to invite and she wanted to take care of everything else and make it a surprise.
I was perfectly fine with that so I came up with a list and sent it. I then get an angry call from my FMIL because she wasn't invited to the party. I explained to her I wasn't comfortable with her being there and she went on and on about how she isn't included in anything and how awful I am being. She started crying and hung up the phone.
Side note - she has been included in so many details. She was with me when I went dress shopping, she saw the centerpieces, save the dates, invitations, everything before I purchased them. She also HATED everything I picked and didn't mind telling me it wasn't as nice as her daughter's wedding and it wasn't good enough.
Am I crazy for not wanting her at my bachelorette party? It seems weird to me to invite her. It is just for my friends and bridesmaids, no one else. My own mother isn't invited and we are extremely close!! What do you guys think?