I just had my engagement party and I realized this will come up a few times so I want to get this right. When someone gives you a gift but it's also on behalf of their spouse or kids who couldn't make it to the event, how do I word it?
Someone once told me it was impolite to single someone out on a card - and not to say something like: "Dear John and Jane, Thank you Jane for coming to the party, and I am so sad I missed John but I hope we can get together soon. Thank you for your thoughtful gift, etc....."
But then do I just say something like "Dear John and Jane, thank you so much for coming, it was great seeing you and thank you for your thoughtful gift, etc..."
even though Jane came and John didn't? Or do I skip the thanking for attending altogether?