Planning my own bachelorette weekend ?
Hi ladies I need advice! So to begin .. as all of us girls know being engaged and starting to plan our wedding it's probably going to be one of the most exciting events in our lives.. my deal is my maid of honor is my best friend I live here in Florida but she does live in New York but she flies down all the time because her parents still live here and when I asked her I told her what I expected and she was fine with that. But now my bachelorette weekend/retreat is exactly one month away and she has not got with any other girls yet in the bridal party.. she told me she was going to do it this past weekend..and I called and talk to her last week asking if everything was OK that I know it's a lot and I know she has a lot going on up in New York and if I need to take on the responsibilities just let me know so I know what I'm doing and she told me don't stress about it she has everything that she's going to get everything together next week so on and so forth and she has not yet.. so my question is should I just call and be like "you know what I'm going to go ahead and take things over and I'm going to plan the weekend for all of us"I just feel she's not excited about planning her best friend's bachelorette weekend I mean I would if I was her maid of honor or even a bridesmaid I would be on top of everything to my best . I feel it's a chore to her or maybe I'm just overthinking it and maybe my expectations are high but with it being one month away I get anxiety and it stresses me out.. so should I just wait out and see what happens or should I call her by the end of this week and just let her know hey I'm going to go ahead and take things over? Can you girls help me! Xo