My fiance and I currently live and work in Japan and we are attempting to plan a wedding for next spring (likely late April/early May). We can reasonably only go back home for a week around New Years and then 2 weeks for the wedding, so what's some advice to ease the planning? I don't want to push too much work on my parents and in-laws. We have a tight budget as well which doesn't entirely help. Any and all advice would be helpful!
"I am disinclined to acquiesce to your request.... It means no." -Alistair, Dragon Age Origins