I don't really have a question so much as I want need to share. My DH works in a small department of a much larger quasi-state run agency. His immediate supervisor is a 53 woman who oversees him and about 4 other men directly (and about 7 other people indirectly). She regularly will text them messages to their personal phones as a group conversation and is also facebook friends with them. They are a relatively open group of coworkers that goof around both on and off the clock.
This morning I was carpooling to work with my DH when his phone message chime went off repeatedly (about 10 times). I looked over to him and commented "wow you're popular" and he then said, "eh its probably just [boss] sending something." He then handed over his phone to show me. In the message was multiple pictures of women in lingerie showing off their assets (front and back). I handed him back his phone and asked him if she always does this. He said its a Wednesday / Friday thing but he never keeps the photos on his phone.
I just don't know how to feel. Part of me doesn't care, I trust him to behave himself and I know he wouldn't do anything. But part of me is really bothered by all this. I know it is unprofessional on her part (that's obvious), and he said he would tell her to stop if I wanted him to...but he obviously enjoys the eye-candy since this has been ongoing for what is apparently some time. I guess I might be a bit insecure in all of this too, but I can't be the only one who thinks this a bad idea.
Anyway, thanks for listening (reading!)