One of my bridesmaids did not return my calls or texts two weeks before
my bridal shower. She lives out of state and I knee that she would not
be attending but she had previously agreed to contribute to the cost
with my MOH and was going to mail a check. My MOH had not heard from her
in the weeks leading up to the shower and asked me to try and reach
her. She did not return my calls or texts. The day after my shower she
texted that she was having some medical issues and had bad service; she
didn't mention the money ($140) which I ended up contributing myself.
Long story short she has not contacted me since that one text but has
been active daily on social media. My feelings are hurt to be honest
that she isn't responding; I stated several times that I could cover
costs for any of my girls but I needed a heads up. I think its absurdly
rude that she is ignoring the matter and furthermore I'm not sure how to
proceed... Is she going to be in the wedding? She dodged my questions
about if she had ordered her dress before all of this happened so I
don't even know if she has it and to be honest I don't want to hunt down
a friend to make sure she isn't bailing on me.... I don't know how to
proceed if she isn't answering me? my wedding is in 6 weeks.