I'm the bad guy
Someone on facebook was complaining about having to go buy a gown for her friend's "black tie" wedding at Disney. I was trying to be supportive so I told her, "I doubt it's truly black tie so just go get yourself a suit that you'll be comfortable in." And that's when the utter shitshow started. I'm apparently an asshole for saying that she shouldn't have specified it was black tie and she shouldn't have put no children on her invitation. I'm not usually one to delete comments, but it felt like I'd stepped onto WW when people started saying, "It's YOUR day! It costs soooo much money to feed people who you don't want there!" Nobody would listen to me. I hit the delete button.