Fiance's brother was a groomsman.
They aren't close. When we visit, he doesn't make a point to see us. In the 6 years we've been together, I've never said more than hi to him. (Truly!) He never calls fiance or keeps in touch.
Now during fiance's bachelor party day, his brother sort of crashed it and kept trying to pull my fiance away. His friends were getting annoyed, and so was fiance. (By the way- this was all messaged to me during the party by the other groomsmen, who I have great relationships with.) The friends finally went to do something and the brother snared fiance and pulled him away from an activity he really wanted to do.
He allegedly spent half an hour trying to convince my fiance not to marry me because I'm "conniving and terrible" because we live in a different city than his family. (It was entirely fiance's choice- I was willing to move anywhere with him.)
Fiance demoted his brother to an usher because he was so upset that he ruined the party and was so disrespectful to me, but I'm having a hard time even wanting to see this jerk at all! Why would a practically perfect stranger try to break his brother's engagement? Why would he go to the party after not hanging out in 5 years to do it? If he hates me so much, why would he even want to come to the wedding at all?
I'm just thankful I won't have to see his mug in my bridal party pictures, I guess... now I"m just afraid he'll object during the ceremony!