My wedding is a month away and my reply by date is the first of August. So many replies are still out! I'm so bummed because I cut people I have known for half my life for the people at me and my fiancés, work (we work together). With spouses or quests it was 26 people invited, 3 yes' 6 waiting on 17 no's! I'm so upset with myself that I invited so many people from work because you dont want anyone's feelings hurt so it kept growing and taking away from people I would have most definately have rather had spend my wedding day with. I'm hurt, I'm angry and it sounds terrible but I wasted invitations on these people. My number for the venue was topped off so I couldn't even had invited more if I wanted to. My missing responses don't even have the decency to respond "declines" quickly to open up spots for others we couldn't fit in. I'm so bewildered.