I was wondering if anyone could help me. I am trying to organise my very small wedding (about 15-20 people) in the Hamptons whilst being based in London (not easy). Basically, we just want an intimate dinner in a garden setting, very low key. We would not even be using/staying in the actual house as for organisational reasons it is easier everybody finds their own accommodation. We are both in our 40's and are not trying to organise a crazy party, just a lovely BBQ/dinner for our friends. We have tried finding properties on airbnb but most won't allow events. We have also found venues with gardens in the Hamptons but we want to use our own caterers which doesn't seem to work. Is there anyone who can help?