Wedding Woes

Ignore your colleagues comments and talk to your boss.

Dear Prudence,

One of my colleagues, “Amanda,” recently left our company. Amanda and I worked closely over the past few months, as I’m relatively new to this position. “Rachel,” our manager, said that she thinks I’d be a good replacement and that Amanda had herself suggested me before she left. Rachel emphasized that I shouldn’t feel pressure to accept, that the position wasn’t even posted yet, but that I should think about it; I said I appreciated it and wanted to discuss the idea further. She said it was a role they had made specifically for Amanda and that the position could be reshaped.

The problem is that Amanda was almost always the first one in and the last one out. Other colleagues have said things like, “It was only a matter of time before she burned out” and joked that I’m “smiling now” but won’t be once I’m staying at the office every night until 9 p.m. I’ve already been given a lot of Amanda’s old tasks while we search for her replacement, and it’s become clear that a lot of her time was taken up by project management (as opposed to the creative title in her job description). The good news is that we’ve recently hired a new director, and they are looking to add a project manager.

What is an appropriate way and time to bring up my many concerns about Amanda’s workload? Should I do that with Rachel, the new director, both together, or both separately? Additionally, I’m not sure that this is an official promotion, since both Amanda and I reported to the same person. What’s the best way (and time) to discuss a raise? I don’t want to seem presumptuous, since it’s not like I have the job already. I want to create a document that lists some of the pain points in the new position and a corresponding list of solutions I propose. However, is that information I should only present once I have the job?

—Jumping the Gun

Re: Ignore your colleagues comments and talk to your boss.

  • 100% talk to boss! The job was shaped to previous person and they're willing to reshape it to LW - meaning it might be a good idea
  • "Rachel - can I please have a copy of Amanda's job description and set up some time to talk about this with you? I'd like to discuss which parts of the job can be reshaped and which need to stay as is. I will tell you that my main concern with considering this role is that Amanda seemed to work really long hours. I am dedicated to this company, but solid work-life balance keeps me happy here."

    Then call Amanda and ask her why she left and which parts of the job were keeping her there so long. Ask for those parts to be taken off when meeting with Rachel. 
    This.

    Also, one of my former supervisors (whom I love dearly and am seeing on our vacation in Oct.) was someone who was at work all.the.time and bitched about how much work she had to do.   She also said she couldn't concentrate at home between the kids and the husband.   BUT, she socialized...A. LOT.  So I think the way she ran her day shot her in the foot much of the time. 

    My supervisor after her left on time every day unless there was a reason for her to stay later that was out of her control (late meetings or whatever) and my current supervisor doesn't seem to stay super late either.  

    So Amanda may have had efficiency issues that LW may not encounter. 
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