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Grooming your GFs daughter? Go take a long walk off a short cliff!

OliveOilsMomOliveOilsMom South Jersey
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Dear Amy: My girlfriend “Wendy” and I have been living together for seven years. She has a daughter, “Ariel,” 18, who recently graduated from high school. Ariel and I always got along great, but I liked her more than I liked her mother, and I feel terrible about it.

A few years into our relationship, Wendy started neglecting her health and hygiene, put on weight, wouldn’t exercise, and after a while I was no longer attracted to her.

All the while, Ariel started to look great, and I couldn’t stop thinking about her.

I saved all my passions for Wendy, but honestly I was thinking about Ariel the whole time.

Ariel and her mother never got along at all. Her mother was jealous of our relationship.

When Ariel was 15, I suggested sending her to boarding school. She loved the school, and I hate to say it, but another reason I wanted her to go there was because I wanted to have a relationship with her, and I hated myself for it.

I visited Ariel a few times at school. Wendy was very jealous and suspicious of Ariel for dressing provocatively.

I was visiting Ariel at her school right after she turned 18, and she came on to me. Now that she is 18, she’s been telling me that she wants to have sex with me before she goes off to college.

I confess, I am almost ready to take her up on it. I’d be breaking no laws. If I left Wendy, I wouldn’t suffer.

Would it ruin Ariel’s life or cause her trouble later on if we have this relationship now? We won’t be living together or dating, and she’s looking forward to heading out of state to go to college soon, and I expect she’ll be dating a lot when she gets there.

— Not Really Stepdad

Re: Grooming your GFs daughter? Go take a long walk off a short cliff!

  • Well, at least he's not Woody Allen.   But he's still a dick.
    ahoyweddingcharlotte989875short+sassyOliveOilsMom
  • edited September 2017
    *jaw on floor* *YES IT WOULD RUIN HER LIFE YOU CREEP!!*

    etf: life not lofe 
    charlotte989875
  • climbingwifeclimbingwife NYC 'burbs
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    Would it ruin her life. I can't. 

    charlotte989875
  • Totally repulsive. I felt nauseous reading.  If I found myself attracted to a 15-year-old I'd run not walk away from the situation; so in his case, I would've ended the relationship a few years ago.
    ahoyweddingcharlotte989875OliveOilsMomSP29
  • flantasticflantastic The Midwest
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    Break up with your GF anyway - you're just not that into her.

    Then run, don't walk, away from the whole thing, you idiot.

    Anniversary

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  • Well, at least this was shorter than the Nabokov novel. 

    I have to go barf now, though. 
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  • Excuse me while I go pick my jaw up off the floor. LW is a huuuuuuge scumbag, you've been fantasizing over a girl since she was 15 and you're wondering if it will ruin her life?! I don't have words to show my disgust.

    sparklepants41short+sassy
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    I wanted to post this before but couldn't find it ....
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  • Andplusalso LW better be in amazing fucking shape and smell amazing if he's bitching about his gf
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  • Andplusalso LW better be in amazing fucking shape and smell amazing if he's bitching about his gf


    I thought of that also.  The double standard that women need to look like perfect Barbie dolls their whole life and, if they don't, they've "let themselves go and are lazy".

    I also like how his only example of her not taking care of her "health", is the fact that she gained weight and isn't exercising.

    I bet dollars to delicious doughnuts that Pedophile Guy isn't the supposedly "hot stuff" that he was 7 years ago either.

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  • Yeah, Ariel's issue scream that she's has parental, father issues.   Coming onto mom's boyfriend is not a normal thing.     
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  • Now I'm really picking on his letter, but his name choice for the pseudonym for his SD.  "Ariel".  A mermaid Disney princess.  Gagging more.
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    charlotte989875eileenrobsouthernbelle0915OurWildKingdom
  • Now I'm really picking on his letter, but his name choice for the pseudonym for his SD.  "Ariel".  A mermaid Disney princess.  Gagging more.
    He's calling his gf Wendy. At least he isn't calling her daughter Tinkerbell  :#
    sparklepants41MissKittyDangershort+sassy
  • Now I'm really picking on his letter, but his name choice for the pseudonym for his SD.  "Ariel".  A mermaid Disney princess.  Gagging more.
    A mermaid Disney princess who says things like "Daddy, I'm sixteen years old. I'm not a child anymore."
    "Marriage is so disruptive to one's social circle." - Mr. Woodhouse
    short+sassy
  • Ewwww....... so creepy!

    Break up with the girlfriend and let "Ariel" go. LW needs to stop this now.
    OurWildKingdom


  • banana468 said:
    Yeah, Ariel's issue scream that she's has parental, father issues.   Coming onto mom's boyfriend is not a normal thing.     
    And/or she's trying to spite her mother, whom she allegedly doesn't get along with. Whatever the reason, LW has been a creep for years and it's time for him to act like an adult, tell Ariel no, stay from her forever, and let her have a chance at a normal life with healthy romantic relationships. He also needs to end things with Wendy and let her find someone who would actually care about her. Did it ever occur to him that maybe Wendy put on weight and stopped taking care of herself because she was depressed that her live-in boyfriend liked her daughter more than he liked her? 




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