I'm putting together my RSVPs (which are driving me nuts lol), and I'm worried about guests trying to bring everyone and their mother. After lots of deliberation my solution is to word it along the lines of:
"We have reserved ____ seats in your honor
____of____accepts with pleasure
____of____declines with regret"
then I would fill out the numbers individually. Here is where it gets tricky: I want to add an RSVP page on my wedding website for those that might find it easier to do it online. I am linking it using google docs so I could fully customize it as I wasn't a fan of the RSVP page here on the knot. However, the paper RSVPs being sent out will be personalized as to the number of guests they can each bring; I'm not sure how to word it online to the same effect. Does anyone have any advice? Also am I wrong for wanting to customize it based on the guest?
My reasoning is because while I'm ok with my cousin and husband bringing their children I'm not ok with a single friend bringing her whole posse of 10 people just because. I ultimately wanted a small wedding and at this point it's a medium sized wedding so I'm hoping to keep it that way.