we received a save the date from an inlaws sibling a few months ago. More details than would be typical for a save the date, but *very much* a save the date. The OOT wedding is in 4 weeks, and we haven't received an invitation. We were planning to attend, but holding off booking flights and a hotel until we knew the details (weddings in their culture are typically multi-day affairs, so we'd want to make sure to be there for the entirety).
My SIL and BIL are both in the wedding party, but I haven't got a clear answer on whether they've received a formal invite. I'm trying to get a better read on the situation - assuming they're late getting invites out, but weighing the possibility that it may have been a courtesy invite, or a gift-grab.
At what point would you all make the call of whether to go or not? At what point would you make assumptions about the nature of the invite? Have any of you ever received a STD without an invite to follow?