A friend got married in November. I was a bridesmaid. It was a low-grade mess (not so much with etiquette, just some things that happened that day) but overall fun. She's been super busy since then with her new husband, house, and life. I haven't seen or heard much of her after the wedding, which was initially a little hurtful, but I'm over it. It felt like we were drifting into very different lives anyway, so I'm okay with that.
Got a text a couple weeks ago that went something like this: "Hey frand! So I'm putting together my wedding album and OMG I have NO pics with my bridesmaids and I'm super jealous of my husband's pics with his groomsmen. Let's get together soon, bring your dress or something in the same color, and let's take some more photos for the album! Give me your availability, I'll see if all of us girls can get together one day to make it easier, but if not maybe we'll just hang!"
Like...bruh. It's been eight months. I've gotten rid of the dress. I'm doing stuff this summer. I've moved on. Sorry 'bout your photos, I guess?
This is mostly a vent, but if I'm delusional for not wanting to participate, feel free to call me out. I don't want to be completely nasty to her, but I'm debating how kind and accommodating to be, if that makes sense.