My fiancé and I are getting Married next March in Tulum, Mexico and i'm running into a bit of a predicament. We've lived together for four years, and honestly don't need or want anything for the house. With that being said, we could use some cash. However, since we're doing a destination wedding it seems tacky to do a "honeyfund". I've asked a few people and i'm getting mixed reviews. Most of the guests i'm assuming wont bring a gift as they've travelled so far and we're okay with that... but the ones who do want to give and also for the people that give gifts and don't go what do you think I should do ? HELPPPP.