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  • There are many medical conditions to which weight gain and weight loss are SYMPTOMS regardless of one's diet and exercise program which is entirely out of someone's control.  A dear friend of mine who just passed, weight gain was a direct symptom of his condition (a form of cancer) in spite of having followed nutrition programs by top trainers, been an internationally elite athlete, and even being on a feeding tube for his final four months virtually unconscious, nothing helped with the scale because it was a symptom.  That was extreme but there are very common conditions that have weight gain/loss closely correlated (Crones, Celiac's, Thyroid, Vitamin deficiencies, etc.)

    Sure, it may not be your problem OP, but even though it's difficult, try to think of someone other than your picture perfect wedding day and instead the value of the relationships with your WP.  That attitude is like pageants who will kick someone out if they gain 10lbs., and these BM are not in a beauty pageant.  And heaven forbid one or more end up pregnant!  Rethinking this dress may be in order especially since none have ordered yet (there's likely a few good reasons!) and the PP have covered the multitude of reasons why.  
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  • ShesSoColdShesSoCold bend over and I'll show ya
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    MobKaz said:
    Gosh, ladies.  Many of you need to work hard at "improving your personal quality"!

    (Am I the only one that remembers THAT poster from long ago?  I think that was the expression used.)

    LOL I let out a big "HAH!" at work! I'd forgotten about that! Thanks for bringing it back!!
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    ernursejMesmrEwe
  • Sorry if you thought for one bit that I was about to read all of that. You have a point to prove, I don’t. Continue giving these women a show :) 
  • 2019bride said:
    Sorry if you thought for one bit that I was about to read all of that. You have a point to prove, I don’t. Continue giving these women a show :) 
    To be fair I put my comment mostly in a nice, easy to comprehend gif. To cut back on all the reading for ya. 
    charlotte989875eileenrob
  • oh now you want parts too? Lol. Won’t give you the time of day. My post, I’m not going anywhere you big cyber bully. I bet none of you act this way in real life. People like you always grow balls on the internet.
  • 2019bride said:
    Sorry if you thought for one bit that I was about to read all of that. You have a point to prove, I don’t. Continue giving these women a show :) 
    Ha!
  • 2019bride said:
    oh now you want parts too? Lol. Won’t give you the time of day. My post, I’m not going anywhere you big cyber bully. I bet none of you act this way in real life. People like you always grow balls on the internet.
    Am I being spoken to? Sweet! I have permission to speak. And yes, I do send snarky gifs to people I know IRL. It’s part of my charm ;)

    PS - no one is asking you to go anywhere. They’re just asking you to be considerate to the people you hold nearest and dearest (you know...your bridal party). 
    charlotte989875eileenrob
  • No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej
  • flantasticflantastic The Midwest
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    2019bride said:
    No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej
    *to

    ETA - for second bolded, *to

    Anniversary

    banana468MRDClelevioosaeileenrob
  • banana468banana468
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    2019bride said:
    No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej
    *to
    I tried.   Your effort is fantastic flantastic.
    Ro041
  • flantasticflantastic The Midwest
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    banana468 said:
    2019bride said:
    No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej
    *to
    I tried.   Your effort is fantastic flantastic.
    Really, I'm disappointed in myself because I only bolded the first one.

    Anniversary

    banana468
  • Thanks smarty pants. You’re so helpful :) @flantastic
  • MobKazMobKaz Chicago suburbs
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    2019bride said:
    No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej

  • MairePoppyMairePoppy Connecticut
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    banana468 said:
    banana468 said:
    2019bride said:
    No you weren’t being spoken too. I was speaking too @ernursej
    *to
    I tried.   Your effort is fantastic flantastic.
    Really, I'm disappointed in myself because I only bolded the first one.
    I don't think it matters if you bolded one or to of them. 

    It matters two me.
                       
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  • I’m calm, been calm. All advice isn’t good advice especially when you’re throwing in little slick remarks. I didn’t ask for any of the Sass. Don’t tell me my dress was “a poor dress choice” I didnt ask for all of that. Just give me your opinion on what I asked about and leave. That’s all.
  • Glad to see she has so many body guards who she doesn’t even know in person LOL. 
  • 2019bride said:
    I’m calm, been calm. All advice isn’t good advice especially when you’re throwing in little slick remarks. I didn’t ask for any of the Sass. Don’t tell me my dress was “a poor dress choice” I didnt ask for all of that. Just give me your opinion on what I asked about and leave. That’s all.
    Okay sure, you asked about a deadline for buying the dresses. However, the option you chose for dresses isn't the best, and we were trying to help you see that. If you've ever ordered something online, especially clothing, it shouldn't be hard to acknowledge that things aren't always as they seem and it can be risky to order from a brand you're not already familiar with. IE: I know what size I wear at Old Navy. I order their clothes online without hesitation. I own like one thing from J Crew, so I'd either order a few sizes online or shop in the store.

    An (admittedly extreme, silly) metaphor may be asking "Hey guys I'm thinking of killing my husband. Should I shoot him or run him over with the car?" Sure, you asked the best way to kill someone, but the correct answer to that question is that your choice to kill someone n the first place is wrong. In your situation, maybe ordering your dresses from a shop that doesn't re-stock is a poor choice, so it the rest of the question doesn't matter.
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  • MobKazMobKaz Chicago suburbs
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    For someone that wants this madness to end, she can’t seem to walk away.....
    banana468MairePoppy
  • Lol and I’m not going too. Thanks for the humor, I laughed out loud literally.
  • We haven't had one of these in a long while. It is amusing. The boards have gotten a little boring lately.

    @banana468 I could hire you for that mind controlling thing if you have the time!
    banana468MobKaz
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